This is a question that I get a lot and it’s a question I don’t like because people don’t like the answer. The short answer is, honestly, you don’t. It’s not your job to get them into their therapy, it’s their job. It’s their life, their emotions and their consequences. They are responsible for all of these things and not anybody else. One of the main reasons they are the way they are is because others haven’t used accountability when it is needed. Taking away their accountability enables their disorder. This can include circumstances when their actions have warranted legal and criminal charges. Protecting them from this only keeps them sick. Cluster B’s recover when they seek help for themselves, not when other people compel them to go to therapy. If a cluster B attends therapy and counseling to appease others, they are far less likely to recover. That’s the simple truth of it.
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