Co-parenting With a Narcissist; Finding the Right Answers

by Scott Carter | Jul 22, 2019 | Conflict Resolution, Coparenting, Personality Disorders

As a therapist, I have primarily specialized in teens, parenting and the science of family dynamics. I’ve had a front-row seat watching kids struggle in life because they are caught in the middle of a high conflict custody battle. These situations have such...

Our Boys are Failing: What is The Young Warrior Project?

by Scott Carter | Apr 24, 2018 | Conflict Resolution

I’ve been working with teenagers for nearly twenty years, I started working in treatment centers where teens were sent when they were basically kicked out of society and were deemed to be in need of behavior corrections. As a therapist, I have never been so concerned...

Is High Conflict Divorce Counseling right for my situation?

by Scott Carter | Sep 21, 2017 | Conflict Resolution, Coparenting, Custody Issues, Parenting Articles

Usually when I talk about divorce with a lot of conflict, I’m referring to situations where one of the parent’s is a high conflict individual who is sometimes an individual with a personality disorder. I’ve written a lot of articles on these types of divorces and tips...

3 Mandatory Rules to Follow if You’re in a Custody Battle with a Narcissist or Borderline

by Scott Carter | Aug 6, 2017 | Conflict Resolution, Coparenting, Custody Issues, Parenting Articles, Personality Disorders

Unfortunately, divorce happens. A lot. I’m always happy when I see couples that split and are able to effectively co-parent. Sometimes people set aside their differences to seek a mutual desire to raise happy and healthy children. But when custody battles go badly,...

High conflict individuals: It’s not what you said, it’s what they think you said

by Scott Carter | May 7, 2017 | Conflict Resolution

I’m writing this article specifically for people who are in some kind of relationship with a high conflict individual. When I talk about these types of people, high conflict is the bottom line, virtually everything ends in some kind of argument or fight. You may be in...

My partner was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, what should I expect?

by Scott Carter | Apr 15, 2017 | Conflict Resolution, Personality Disorders

I recently saw someone ask a similar question online. A woman posed the question, ‘I’ve just been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), what does my boyfriend need to know?’ I thought that this was a great question and a good question to write an...